Imagine waking up each morning and seeing your body projected in a hologram in front of you.
It says: DEAR [your name], based on yesterday’s stress, your exercise load, your sleep quality, micronutrient status, fascia hydration, and even how much you lived in alignment with yourself, I grant you 10 BLOCKS for today.
With these 10 blocks you can clear any leftover stress from before.
And you can also handle the demands of the day ahead.
Each block is a unit of stress.
Work.
Training.
Responsibilities.
Watching the news.
Scrolling social media.
Every input counts.
If you recover overnight—your body finishes repairing, clears stress hormones, restores fascia hydration, resets circadian rhythm—then you feel amazing in the morning.
Rested.
Clear.
Those ten blocks vanish.
You wake up with zero.
Your body recalculates how many blocks you get for the next day.
Perhaps another ten.
Stack them.
Clear them.
Keep going.
Now flip it.
In your twenties, you get 10 blocks per day.
Say you stack ten blocks every day—but you don’t recover.
You overload your days with:
Work.
Studying.
Drinking.
Partying.
Lack of sleep.
Crap food.
You wake up with yesterday’s ten blocks still there.
Then you add ten more tomorrow.
And ten more the next day.
By thirty.
By forty.
By fifty
You’re buried under towers of unrecovered blocks.
That mountain of backlog? People call it “aging.”
It’s not age.
It’s accumulation.
You’ve been in perpetual recovery mode.
Your body begging for recovery.
And you not giving it.
Worse-you went in the opposite direction.
You kept stacking more.
And the accumulation of those blocks is not abstract.
They show up as biological traffic jams.
Fascia drying out like a sponge left on the counter.
Circadian rhythm hormones thrown out of balance.
Inflammation that never clears.
Aches.
Pains.
Brain fog.
Crappy moods.
Stress hormones stay elevated.
Repair signals never complete.
Energy systems clog.
This is the real architecture of “getting old.”
Here is the biggest rule of thumb of your amazing life:
Do not do more in one day than you can recover from. Period.
That’s the key to living a truly good life.
And it’s the key to slowing your aging as much as possible.
Most people don’t believe it.
They think if they slow down—if they take the day to recover—they’ll fall behind.
They fear they won’t make enough money.
They fear they won’t rise fast enough.
They fear they’ll miss the chance to “make something” of themselves.
So they hurry.
They push.
They pile on.
I know because that was me.
If I regret anything, it’s this: in my 20s and 30s, I was so driven by the pressure to prove myself that I missed the actual years I was in.
I did incredible things, yes—
But it could have been even richer, even truer, if I had slowed down, told the peanut gallery to fuck off, and lived in my own rhythm.
That pressure wasn’t theirs, it was mine.
And it cost me.
And it’s not just about life.
It’s about health.
Because here’s the deeper problem:
People don’t want to admit, today I need to slow down.
They don’t want to say, this job is killing me, I need to walk away.
They don’t want to cancel the workout.
Or the drinks.
Or the socializing.
They’re terrified that listening to themselves makes them a failure.
And this builds a system of perpetual debt.
But realize this: the more you slow down and listen to your body, the more successful you will be.
Things start to line up.
Energy clears.
Focus sharpens.
Listening to your body creates biochemical coherence that compounds every single day—and it gives you access to many more blocks of capacity.
If I could plant this truth into everyone’s brain forever, the world would be full of people moving with vitality, steadiness, and far fewer mental health struggles.
Your body is telling you, every single day, in a clear voice right in front of you, how many blocks you have for that day.
You already have an implicit hologram.
Listen.
Once you start listening consistently…
First, you clear the backlog.
Then you live by the principle: never do more in a day than you can recover from.
That’s the only way adaptation works.
That’s how you stop declining.
That’s how you start rebuilding capacity again.
Don’t confuse recovery with weakness.
Don’t mistake listening to yourself for failure.
The truth is simple:
Do only what you can recover from today.
Not laziness.
Discipline at its highest level.
That’s how your body stays young for decades.
Chronological age goes up.
Biologically you stay fresh.
This piece originally appeared on Substack.
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